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By Kelly
Te Heuheu
Maori
Crime Specialist, Sensible Sentencing Trust
Grief,
Pain & Division of our People over Maori Land & Tribal
Politics
Since
early childhood, I remember the punch-ups and arguments
between our people over land and tribal politics. The worst
issue with Maori Land is most of it is in multiple ownership
which is disastrous.
For the
children playing around the Marae we got used to this fighting
as the norm of our lifestyle. Many of our people moved away
from home due to friction and fighting. Families broke up, the
feud lasted for many years - sometimes a lifetime.
Even
worse, animosity goes down through generations like a plague.
Grief, pain and division between whanau (family), hapu (sub
tribe) and iwi (tribe) over land and tribal politics is so bad
that many of our people distance themselves from our culture.
As we
were growing up, I remember clearly the misery of our own
whanau grief. Being the arikinui lineage (Chief), my
grandmother had to be very protective of all of us because of
others’ distrustful agenda. They were so bad that we were
like a dartboard and had darts thrown at our whanau from all
directions. In fact, Pakeha New Zealanders treated us better
than our own people treated us.
A few of
our people used our whanau for their own selfish wayward ways
and did everything they could to turn the whanau against each
other. We had the “wannabes” trying to be important for
all the wrong reasons. More people wanted to be chiefs and
tribal leaders than just to be themselves.
Resentment
and jealousy causes so much pain. My aunty always said it’s
been a very hard life being who we are. I did not realise this
until I was older and found out for myself. The hatred is so
bad it affects the innocents for years. The saddest memory is
many of our people prefer not to get buried at their home land
because the grief and pain was so bad. My father wanted to be
buried at a public cemetery to ensure we children did not have
to be around the Marae. Unfortunately, to save the whanau
grief and embarrassment we had to bury him at our marae
cemetery.
Over the
years our people - especially the children - come back and
would love to live on their homeland but the excitement does
not last long once they find out the ugly side of politics and
the situation regarding Maori land. They soon realise in
reality there is nothing here for them.
Tribal funds do not allow for homes and businesses for
the people. Instead, it’s used for building an empire with
the people unlikely to know what really happens to these
funds. The rich land assets and tribal money is not worth
thinking about because in reality it does not go down to the
very people that need it the most. We are well known for
having one of the most successful forestry farming and asset
bases, but in reality our people have nothing.
We
urgently need to round up our land base for homes and
businesses for our tribal people. The leaders need to work
with Local and National Government to unblock the legal
bureaucratic red tape nonsense that prevents our lands being
lived on to create economic wealth. This would enable our
people to come home and be independent. However, that looks
unlikely to happen with the vision of our leaders anyway.
Nothing has been done and if any of us want to do it anything
out comes the darts from all directions driven by the
jealously and ugly side of our people.
One
whanau tried for so long to put a house on a block of land.
Yet they came up with resistance and animosity from so many.
This block of land was in bush for decades, but the minute
someone wants to build, all the darts come flying out. This is
why if any of our people do want to come home and build they
prefer to buy private land from a real estate agent. This way
they are safe and secure and will not get involved in tribal
fights and grief. This also provides security for their
children at times of death.
When our
women go home, they are offended that Maori protocol oppresses
women: they are shunned for speaking out and are expected to
take a back seat. It is not surprising that we have high
statistics of domestic crime considering we have a culture
where women are treated as second class to Men.
In our
Maori world it is very common to have dictators controlling
the whanau. The eldest man of the whanau is considered the
hierarchy of the whanau and typically takes advantage of the
situation. To control and dictate is a form of abuse in real
life and it breeds resentment and anger among the many people
who are victims of this life style. The cycle continues.
Our
youth are extremely affected from the sense of dispossession
that their parents feel - no sense of pride in belonging
somewhere. The violence and aggression escalates through
generations from tribal grief. The respect for others
disintegrates and travels along the pathway in one's life.
Culminating all of these issues, what do our people have? In
addition, what happens to society when we have people grieved
with pain, friction and aggression? At the end of the day what
do we have to look forward to in our culture?
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