29 July 06 Exposing
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As
the country struggles to come to terms with the extent of
New Zealand
’s child abuse problem and what can be done about it, the
real culprits have remained hidden. This week Newman Weekly
looks at who is to blame, while the guest comment - from the
Otago Daily Times - investigates the growth of “hatred,
envy, rage, self-loathing, poverty, ignorance, dehumanisation,
nihilistic parenting, and the seeds of racial confrontation”
in our youth.
The worst child abusers in the country are
the government. Successive governments have put in place
social policies that have created the very conditions in which
child abuse flourishes: whole communities in which the
two-parent family has vanished, where work is rare or
non-existent, and where multiple generations have grown up
relying on welfare. This disintegration of family and values
has resulted in severe social pathologies, deprivation,
squalor, crime and violence.
Just this week, South Auckland social
service agencies working at the coalface of the child abuse
crisis spoke openly of benefit money being spent on alcohol
and drugs instead of food and clothing for children; of
parents deciding to separate to get more welfare; of the
system discouraging fathers from taking responsibility for
their children; of young mothers having to lock their bedroom
doors at night to keep themselves and their babies safe - from
their brothers who are their baby’s fathers – but who are
afraid to report serious illegal activities in the home for
fear the police will involve CYFs and their babies will be
taken off them…
Other governments in other countries have
had the courage to admit that their social policies have
created a dysfunctional underclass where children are no
longer safe. As a result they have changed the policies that
caused the problem.
But even though our problems are bigger
than most, our Government remains defiant, turning a blind eye
to their own culpability.
Meanwhile,
the State continues to pay girls and women with little
education, few prospects, and without stable partners, to have
and raise children on their own, even though the evidence is
overwhelming that child abuse most often occurs in single
parent families on welfare. The State then ensures that the
fathers - the traditional protectors of children - don’t
stick around, by threatening to stop the mother’s welfare
payments and to prosecute her if the dad gets too involved in
her family.
Further,
even though marriage is well proven to be the best guarantee
that children have of growing up safely and well, the State
mercilessly undermines it. It makes welfare payments so
generous that marriage has become unaffordable for most
low-income parents who can now make far more money by being on
welfare. Just recently we saw how the families of the murdered
twins Chris and Cru Kahui reportedly had upwards of two
thousand dollars of benefit money coming into the homes each
week.
Labour
has also undermined marriage legally by introducing laws,
which give cohabiting partners the same legal privileges as a
married couple. The result is that more and more young people
are now saying, “why bother getting married?” (An
excellent article on this subject has just been written by
Melanie Philips; you can read, “Why Labour Despises the
Family” view
>>>)
To
further create an environment in which child abuse flourishes,
the State herds struggling solo mothers into state housing
areas where fatherhood scarcely exists, where there are few
role models of anyone who works for a living, and where
children view truancy, delinquency and crime as commonplace.
Worse,
with its ideological rejection of school vouchers – a
scholarship system which enables children to be better
educated - the State denies these illiterate and dysfunctional
youngsters access to educators who can turn their lives
around. Instead, they are forced into the nearest State school
to fail. The end result is something that we should all fear,
as this week’s NZCPD guest commentary “The Crime Within”
- a recent Otago Daily Times editorial – explains (click to view >>>).
But
rather than despair about the human misery caused by
Government policies, we should demand they take action to turn
the situation around. The solutions are clear: throughout the
world, Governments that really care about children are
reforming welfare.
Just
this week in the Economist, an article entitled “Tough Love
Works” (click to view
>>>)
reflects on the outstanding success of American reforms that
ended sole parent welfare entitlements:
“A
decade ago, Americans began a bold social experiment. In
August 1996, Bill Clinton signed into law the bill that
introduced “welfare to work”. From that point, poor
families could no longer claim welfare indefinitely as an
entitlement. Instead, parents had to find a job.
“Ten
years on… America's welfare rolls have fallen by over half
as existing claimants have found work and fewer people have
gone on benefit in the first place. Furthermore, there has
been no upsurge in the poverty rate; in fact, it has fallen
over the period.
Welfare
reform was once regarded as a harsh, right-wing, America-only
idea. But an unexpected lesson of the past ten years is that
it enjoys much wider political appeal. Within America, its
success has silenced the former fierce opposition of left-wing
Democrats, which Mr Clinton had overruled. For the Labour
government in Britain and for social democrats in Europe,
reform offers a way to reintegrate people who would otherwise
live in a welfare apartheid. Furthermore, it is a way to
defend generous support for the poor - as long as they find
work. Another attraction for developed countries as their
populations age is that it mobilises more employment to
maintain living standards and help pay for the old. And, best
of all, it works”.
The
reforms were based on the principle that families are better
off if parents work, so open-ended sole parent benefits were
replaced with support and services that lead to jobs. In order
to encourage teenagers to postpone parenting and complete
their education, cash payments and housing assistance to
teenage parents were stopped, although schooling, life skills
training, career guidance, and child-care are all readily
available to help young parents prepare for an independent
future.
In
public policy, you get what you pay for. If our Government did
its job and changed the incentives in the welfare system to
reinforce work, family, and independence, the record levels of
child abuse and neglect that each year breaks our hearts,
would finally – and thankfully - begin to be a thing of the
past.
The
poll this week: Do
you support the concept of removing cash payments and housing
assistance to teenage parents, while ensuring that they
receive support services to prepare them for an independent
future - including having access to adult-supervised
accommodation if their homes are unsafe?
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